It’s been over a year since Timothée Chalamet reportedly started dating Kylie Jenner, and it’s kind of amazing how someone like Jenner — who has grown up in front of reality TV cameras and lives on social media — has managed to keep that aspect of her life so private. Aside from a couple of public makeout sessions and one Golden Globes appearance, the couple keeps things pretty low-key. An insider opened up about why — and, more importantly, how — Chalamet and the youngest sibling on the Kardashian-Jenner family tree keep their romance under the radar.

Earlier this summer Kylie Jenner and Timothée Chalamet seemed to confirm they were still going strong when they were seen — albeit incognito in masks and ballcaps — out on a movie date. That is apparently part of their M.O., according to an insider, who told ET:

Because of their careers, both parties are very much in the public eye, but it sounds like it’s important to Kylie Jenner and her “𝑠e𝑥y rat boyfriend” that they maintain something of a work/life balance and strive to keep their romance to themselves. The source divulged how they spend their time together, saying:

Forget shopping at Target, because date nights that consist of home-cooked meals and board games may be the most relatable thing Kylie Jenner’s ever done. Despite rumors that Kris Jenner would prefer to see Timothée flaunt her daughter more,  the Dune: Part Two star has reportedly gotten the full stamp of approval from the Kardashian family, with the insider saying: